Therapies

The Magic of Matrix Reimprinting

Mary-Jane Sharratt
Written by Mary-Jane Sharratt

“I can see myself clearly” I said. “I am six years old, visiting my mum in hospital. She is very ill and looks terrible with tubes everywhere. I am scared, uncertain and confused but I can’t cry and I can’t ask what is happening.”

“Imagine your adult self stepping into that scene and showing little Mary-Jane how to tap on herself for all those feelings of sadness and confusion,” said the Matrix Reimprinting practitioner. “Share with her the wisdom that you have now … that Mum survived, and that your young self is going to be okay.”

Within minutes I could see my little self feeling calmer.

 “What was the belief or the decision you made that day?” asked the practitioner. Without any conscious thought I replied “That I can’t show emotions and I am responsible for the well-being of others”.

Well, that hit me like a sledgehammer … I spent my adolescence and early adult life quite emotionally closed, to the detriment of many friendships and relationships. I also chose work in which I would be responsible for others.  I had no idea that the belief I made at six years old had impacted my adult life so profoundly.

The practitioner asked “What would your little one want to happen now?” When I connected with my younger self I could see that she wanted to understand what was happening and to be told why she was in this hospital with her very poorly mum.

Under the guidance of the practitioner, I imagined my six year old self, with my dad, my mum and my siblings, sharing what was happening and why I was there. We were able to add in the knowledge that mum did recover from her nearly fatal illness.

The feeling of relief and inclusion was wonderful, and, again, with the guidance of the practitioner, I reimprinted those new feelings into that day.

In subsequent weeks I noticed that I behaved differently in situations where I would usually have been shut down emotionally. I found it easier to express my emotions and to open up to others. As a result, I felt freer, lighter and less weighed down. Those close to me observed a difference, and I was better able to make eye contact with others. I began to realise that I was not responsible for others and this changed the way I worked with more emphasis on guiding others to take responsibility for themselves.

What is Matrix Reimprinting?

Matrix re-imprinting

The chances are you have never heard of this therapy, which is an advanced version of Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) or Tapping.

It was developed by Karl Dawson, an EFT Master trainer, who completed his own training with the founder of EFT, Gary Craig. Whilst running an EFT training course in Australia, Karl asked the student who was taking part in a demonstration if she could see her younger self in a particular memory. The student responded “I can see her so clearly I could tap on her”, and so the initial idea of Matrix Reimprinting was born.

In conventional EFT, when we work on a memory, the client is encouraged to feel what they felt at the time. The tapping points are used to release the emotions that were felt on that day, whilst events unfolded. Karl Dawson likens this to being an actor in your own play.

About the author

Mary-Jane Sharratt

Mary-Jane Sharratt

Mary-Jane Sharratt is a trainer of Emotional Freedom Technique as well as an EFT and Matrix Reimprinting practitioner and a homeopath. She is passionate about coaching and supporting holistic therapists to follow their passion and help to change the lives of others. Her work is primarily online with clients and trainees around the world and she delivers some face to face trainings in the UK.

Website: www.eft-practitioner.com